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From Hardship to Hope: A Journey of Resilience and Growth

Hey Sadé,

It is me, connecting with you from many years in the future, giving you a sneak peek of what lies ahead. It is wild to think I am actually doing this, but I believe it’s a valuable glimpse into what’s to come and giving you hope.

Black skin doesn’t need SPF? Well, that was a myth.

I have always wondered why my face and neck were much darker than the rest of my body. To the point where I had to match my foundation with my chest so that there was no discolouration – now I know why. It is what I call the lack of SPF situationship.

A stroke at 27? I never expected it.

This whole time, I was aware I had a brain injury, and I had accepted it. It was, put plainly – an aneurysm. It was only yesterday, however, did I realise I had a stroke. I am still in shock, to be honest. Think about it. You hear of strokes happening to older adults. Those who were stressed, over 80, did not sleep correctly, etc. But, in my mind, it definitely didn’t occur to young people. So what the hell happened in my case?!

Embracing & finding beauty in my scar – my new best friend

A scar. The remainder of what was there before, and what is no longer. Beauty was something I grew to love within myself and appreciate it in all shapes and forms. My skin colour, my race, my hair texture – all of it. I was beautiful in my stance. I loved myself. Yet, now I have to find that same beauty in a different version of me.

Survival Meant I Chose To Be Selfish

I was asked why I never said anything, why I didn’t tell anybody – why I chose to be selfish? I was and still am; not sorry.

I did what I had to do to keep me sane and emotionally stable. I did what I had to do for me.

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