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Category: Self Love & Thoughts

From Hardship to Hope: A Journey of Resilience and Growth

Hey Sadé,

It is me, connecting with you from many years in the future, giving you a sneak peek of what lies ahead. It is wild to think I am actually doing this, but I believe it’s a valuable glimpse into what’s to come and giving you hope.

A stroke at 27? I never expected it.

This whole time, I was aware I had a brain injury, and I had accepted it. It was, put plainly – an aneurysm. It was only yesterday, however, did I realise I had a stroke. I am still in shock, to be honest. Think about it. You hear of strokes happening to older adults. Those who were stressed, over 80, did not sleep correctly, etc. But, in my mind, it definitely didn’t occur to young people. So what the hell happened in my case?!

Survival Meant I Chose To Be Selfish

I was asked why I never said anything, why I didn’t tell anybody – why I chose to be selfish? I was and still am; not sorry.

I did what I had to do to keep me sane and emotionally stable. I did what I had to do for me.

The Unexpected “New Begining” – That I Wasn’t Prepared For

2017 – What a significant year this was for me. Unfortunately, it was both good and bad.

I was excited about the direction my life was going. Became a qualified teacher, received a promotion and was financially stable – thinking about the future. I even went on three holidays back to back in summer!

However, in October 2017, that was the month I almost died. The month I survived a traumatic brain injury. Life has not been the same since then. Now I am on a new journey.

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